Making New Friends While Studying Abroad
Studying abroad is one of the most exciting experiences you can have but it can also feel surprisingly lonely at first.
You’ve landed in a new country, everything is unfamiliar, and suddenly you’re surrounded by people… yet you don’t know anyone.
The good news? Making friends abroad is absolutely possible—even if you’re introverted, shy, or nervous about putting yourself out there. In fact, many students say the friendships they form abroad become some of the most meaningful of their lives.
Here’s how to build real connections while studying abroad without forcing yourself to become someone you’re not.
1. Start small: say yes to the first few invitations
In your first weeks abroad, friendships often form quickly because everyone is looking for connection.
Even if you’re tired, nervous, or unsure, try saying yes to:
coffee after class
a campus event
a group dinner
a walking tour
a student club meeting
You don’t have to stay the whole time. Showing up is the hardest part and it’s often what opens the door.
2. Don’t wait to feel “ready”
One of the biggest study abroad myths is that friendships happen instantly.
In reality, most people feel awkward at first.
The students who make friends fastest aren’t the most confident—they’re the ones who take small social risks before they feel comfortable.
You don’t need to be outgoing.
You just need to be consistent.
3. Go where repeated connection happens
The best friendships are built through repetition—not one-time interactions.
Try places where you’ll naturally see the same people again:
language exchanges
gyms or workout classes
cafés you visit regularly
volunteering
student organizations
weekly study groups
The more familiar your face becomes, the easier conversation feels.
4. Use the “one question rule”
If you don’t know what to say, use this simple habit:
Ask one genuine question.
Examples:
“Where are you from?”
“What brought you to this program?”
“What’s been your favorite thing so far?”
“Have you found any good places to eat around here?”
Most people are relieved when someone starts the conversation.
5. Make friends with locals and other international students
Many students only befriend other study abroad students because it feels easier.
And that’s totally okay.
But if you want a deeper cultural experience, try balancing both:
international students = instant shared experience
locals = long-term cultural connection
Both types of friendships can make your time abroad richer.
6. Don’t underestimate “micro-moments”
Friendship isn’t always built through big plans.
Sometimes it starts with:
laughing during class
sitting next to the same person twice
sharing a snack
helping someone find a building
asking someone to join you for lunch
Small moments matter.
7. Be patient: connection takes time
Your first week abroad may feel exciting but your first month can feel emotionally messy.
That’s normal.
Adjusting to a new country takes energy, and your brain is processing new information constantly.
Give yourself permission to:
feel lonely sometimes
miss home
have quiet days
take breaks from socializing
Friendship doesn’t mean you’re never alone.
It means you’re building community over time.
Studying abroad is one of the biggest personal growth experiences you can have and learning how to build community in a new environment is part of that growth.
At Joy Worldwide Inc., we believe every student deserves not only the chance to travel, but the support to thrive while abroad.
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